I've been feeling pretty bad... Well, that's an understatement. I'm a mess. Colby sent me a letter today, and I thought I'd post it because often times, people go through hard times, and need a little encouragement. If you need encouragement, please read on:
I just said a prayer and I'm fasting for you. Keep your head up, you'll get through this. I know it's hard, but take it from me, it hurts now but it's so much better that you [were honest] rather than stringing Thomas along when you knew the relationship would no longer progress. Allow yourself to grieve, sadness is part of moving on, and an integral part of it. You can't move on without experiencing the sadness that comes along with heartbreak. Take a couple of days (at least) to really grieve, mope, and cry, and then get "outside" ass soon as possible so that you aren't consumed by the sadness. If you feel your decision was right, then it was right for both of you, even if neither of you can see it now.